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How to Stop Replacing One Addiction with Another

Clinically Reviewed by: Dr. Robin Campbell, LMFT, PHD

Breaking Free from Addiction Swapping

Addiction is a complex disease that affects millions worldwide. It’s often characterized by a compulsive engagement with a substance or behavior, despite negative consequences. While overcoming one addiction is a monumental achievement, many fall prey to a phenomenon called “replacement addiction.” This cycle of trading one unhealthy fixation for another can be incredibly frustrating.

The National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA) reports that roughly 40.3 million people aged 12 or older in the United States had a substance use disorder in 2020.  Many of these individuals, upon quitting an initial addiction, may unknowingly develop a new one. This can manifest in various ways, from excessive exercise to compulsive shopping or even video game addiction.

Understanding why this happens is key to breaking the cycle.

Why We Swap Addictions

There are several reasons why people replace one addiction with another. Here are some key factors:

  • Dopamine Dependency: Our brains reward us with dopamine, a neurotransmitter associated with pleasure and motivation, during addictive behaviors. Quitting an addiction disrupts this dopamine flow, leading to cravings and discomfort. New, often harmless, activities can trigger a temporary dopamine surge, offering a substitute for the original addiction. This is similar to how someone might crave a sugary snack after quitting smoking, as sugar also triggers dopamine release.
  • Coping Mechanism: Addiction often serves as a way to cope with underlying emotional issues like anxiety, depression, or trauma. When the primary addiction is removed, those issues remain, prompting the need for a new coping mechanism. Someone who used alcohol to numb emotional pain might turn to excessive exercise or social media use to achieve the same numbing effect, even though these behaviors are not healthy in the long run.
  • Habitual Behavior: Addictions are deeply ingrained habits. Replacing it with another provides a sense of structure and routine, preventing feelings of emptiness. Someone who quit gambling might fill the void left by spending hours meticulously organizing their belongings or cleaning their house repeatedly. While these activities are not inherently harmful, they can become problematic if they become all-consuming and interfere with daily life.

Identifying Replacement Addictions

Not all new behaviors are harmful. In fact, some activities can be incredibly beneficial in recovery. Exercise, for example, is a great way to boost mood and manage stress, both of which can be triggers for relapse. However, a replacement addiction becomes problematic when it starts to negatively impact your life in a similar way to the original addiction. Here are some signs to watch out for:

  • Loss of Control: You find yourself unable to control your engagement with the new behavior. It consumes your thoughts and time, leading to neglecting other important aspects of your life.
  • Negative Consequences: The new behavior starts to have negative consequences on your work, relationships, finances, or health. This could involve missing deadlines at work due to excessive gaming, straining relationships with loved ones by spending all your free time on a new hobby, or accumulating debt from compulsive shopping.
  • Increased Tolerance: You find yourself needing to engage in the behavior more and more intensely to achieve the same level of satisfaction. This could involve exercising for longer durations despite injuries, spending more money on your new hobby, or needing to play video games for increasingly longer periods to feel the same escape.
  • Interferes with daily life: Work deadlines are missed, relationships become strained, and responsibilities are neglected due to the excessive focus on the new behavior. This can lead to job insecurity, social isolation, and a general decline in well-being.
  • Causes financial strain: The new behavior might involve spending large amounts of money, leading to debt accumulation and financial hardship. This can be particularly damaging if the initial addiction was also related to money, such as gambling addiction.
  • Negatively impacts health: The replacement behavior could involve physical activity that leads to injuries or overuse, or it could involve neglecting healthy habits like sleep and nutrition. In some cases, the new addiction might even involve consuming substances that are harmful to health, even if they are different from the original addictive substance.

Breaking the Cycle of Replacement Addiction: A Multi-Pronged Approach

Overcoming replacement addiction requires a holistic strategy that addresses the root of the issue and equips you with tools to build a fulfilling life. Here’s a deeper dive into some effective techniques:

  • Uncover the Underlying Need:  Our initial addiction often served as a maladaptive coping mechanism for underlying emotional issues like anxiety, depression, or past trauma. Therapy can be a powerful tool for uncovering these issues. Through talk therapy modalities like cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), you can learn to identify unhealthy thought patterns and develop healthier coping mechanisms to manage difficult emotions.  A therapist can also help you explore your past experiences and develop strategies for healing from any underlying trauma.
  • Embrace Mindfulness Practices: Mindfulness is the practice of paying attention to the present moment without judgment. Techniques like meditation and deep breathing can be incredibly helpful in managing cravings and uncomfortable emotions that might trigger a return to your old addictive behaviors. Mindfulness helps you become aware of your thoughts and feelings without getting swept away by them. This allows you to make conscious choices about how to respond to triggers, rather than reacting impulsively. There are many mindfulness apps and resources available online to help you get started on your mindfulness journey.
  • Build a Strong Support System:  Surrounding yourself with supportive people who understand your struggles and can offer encouragement is crucial for recovery.  These could be friends, family members, therapists, or even a support group specifically designed for individuals battling addiction.  Support groups provide a safe space to share your experiences, learn from others, and feel less alone in your journey. Look for groups that cater to your specific needs, whether it’s a group for recovering alcoholics, compulsive gamblers, or people struggling with internet addiction.
  • Develop Healthy Habits:  Replacing addictive behaviors with healthy habits not only distracts you from your cravings but also promotes overall well-being.  Focus on activities that nourish your mind, body, and spirit. This could include regular exercise, spending time in nature, getting enough sleep, eating a balanced diet, and engaging in hobbies you genuinely enjoy.  Regular physical activity is a mood booster and can help manage stress, both of which can be triggers for relapse. Spending time in nature has been shown to reduce anxiety and improve mental well-being. Engaging in hobbies you find fulfilling provides a sense of purpose and accomplishment, which can help fill the void left by the old addiction.
  • Seek Professional Help:  Don’t hesitate to seek professional help from qualified therapists, addiction specialists, or psychiatrists. They can provide personalized treatment plans tailored to your unique needs. Therapists can help you develop coping mechanisms, address underlying mental health issues, and prevent relapse. Addiction specialists have extensive knowledge about the specific challenges associated with different addictions and can offer targeted treatment approaches.  Psychiatrists can provide medication-assisted treatment (MAT) if needed, which can be helpful in managing withdrawal symptoms and cravings for certain substances. Remember, seeking professional help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

By implementing these strategies, you can break the cycle of replacement addiction and build a life filled with healthy habits, strong support systems, and a sense of purpose.  Remember, recovery is a journey, not a destination. There will be setbacks along the way.  With dedication, self-compassion, and the right support network, you can overcome these challenges and achieve lasting recovery.

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